Women marrying themselves.... literally shaking my head in DISGRACE. A new "trend" called sologamy where women are having entire ceremonies to wed themselves because they cant find a husband ,complete with cake and bridesmaids!
This is the most ridiculous load of bullshit I have ever heard. Who really spends the same amount of money that you would spend on a regular wedding for this crap. I have been trying so hard in my head to make some sense of this and I just cant come to any real conclusion as to why this is feasible.
For those that haven't heard, there are women out there that have made vows to themselves that they if they were not married by a certain age that they would marry themselves. This "union" is not recognized ANYWHERE. I'm ashamed that I even used the word union because union means to join up. Who are they joined with??
The whole problem is this whole independent woman junk. No matter how independent you claim to be, you're never fully independent because somebody has to pay you if you have a job. You have to depend on someone for things. You don't necessarily NEED a man but does anyone realize that there are NEEDS that you cant always tend to. You always NEED a second opinion or a second set of eyes. Your girlfriends don't always have the answers. Your single girlfriends are single for a reason. It's good to have a second half to help you through those tough days and you don't have to be married to have a void filled. Marrying myself is not going to fill that void.
I heard this being discussed in a radio show. A woman called in and said that she is 36 years old and she ain't got time to be married. Her reason was that she cant see herself waking up to the same face with their drama. What does that mean? I can accept the I ain't got time excuse but the same drama? Honey I think you're the one with the drama. And not only that, you obviously have commitment issues. Some women are so ridiculous and have so many of their own issues that they blame the opposite sex for being single. That's like women saying that they're turning lesbian because they've been hurt too many times by men. You ever think that it's your bad choice of men? You know that THUG that everyone wants or the one that you financially support while you keep popping up pregnant. Yeah those are serious and common problems with a lot of women.
So my question is WHY are women wasting money on these ceremonies? Don't we have enough problems as women? Now you're making it known to world that you have been undateable for several years, your self esteem is so low that the only person that you can find is yourself or that your standards are so high that the only person that can accept you is YOU. Now there is nothing wrong with standards and you shouldn't settle. Marrying yourself is just sorry. This is down to the level of a man getting a mail order bride. What happened to self improvement?
Ladies get it together. Im married and haven't been on the scene but this is dumb. I dont how else I can end this blog.....
For those that haven't heard, there are women out there that have made vows to themselves that they if they were not married by a certain age that they would marry themselves. This "union" is not recognized ANYWHERE. I'm ashamed that I even used the word union because union means to join up. Who are they joined with??
The whole problem is this whole independent woman junk. No matter how independent you claim to be, you're never fully independent because somebody has to pay you if you have a job. You have to depend on someone for things. You don't necessarily NEED a man but does anyone realize that there are NEEDS that you cant always tend to. You always NEED a second opinion or a second set of eyes. Your girlfriends don't always have the answers. Your single girlfriends are single for a reason. It's good to have a second half to help you through those tough days and you don't have to be married to have a void filled. Marrying myself is not going to fill that void.
I heard this being discussed in a radio show. A woman called in and said that she is 36 years old and she ain't got time to be married. Her reason was that she cant see herself waking up to the same face with their drama. What does that mean? I can accept the I ain't got time excuse but the same drama? Honey I think you're the one with the drama. And not only that, you obviously have commitment issues. Some women are so ridiculous and have so many of their own issues that they blame the opposite sex for being single. That's like women saying that they're turning lesbian because they've been hurt too many times by men. You ever think that it's your bad choice of men? You know that THUG that everyone wants or the one that you financially support while you keep popping up pregnant. Yeah those are serious and common problems with a lot of women.
So my question is WHY are women wasting money on these ceremonies? Don't we have enough problems as women? Now you're making it known to world that you have been undateable for several years, your self esteem is so low that the only person that you can find is yourself or that your standards are so high that the only person that can accept you is YOU. Now there is nothing wrong with standards and you shouldn't settle. Marrying yourself is just sorry. This is down to the level of a man getting a mail order bride. What happened to self improvement?
Ladies get it together. Im married and haven't been on the scene but this is dumb. I dont how else I can end this blog.....
